Intimacy the with Sweetbread

I start by licking and sucking her toes, while she is on her back on the bed with her eyes closed. As I slowly and methodically show attention to her well toned calves as she began to try and moan silently. On the way up between her soon to be moist wet thighs, my wet tongue begins to drip from excitement. Even though I’m near her wet, soft, sweet aromatic pussy, I bypass what we both want and go straight to her stomach making sure I give her belly button a lot of attention. I then work my way down to her pelvic area and lick and kiss her inner thighs. I run my tongue up and down her thighs. When I get to the pussy, I start out by sensually kissing the outer lips. Then I begin I lick her from the bottom up and when I get to the clit, I kiss and blow on it slowly and then I suck on it softly, as I insert my long hot tongue. I twirl my tongue around her clit. I also insert 2 of my fingers gently, and placed them firm deep inside the bottom of her hot pussy canal, licking her inner walls. I love to get it wet and blow on it and in it softly and she likes it a lot as she begs for more. I guess I could say I kiss her pussy like I would kiss her, Softly, gentle, and sensual. I make love to her pussy with my mouth the same as I do making love to her mouth and lips tongue.

Intimacy with a woman’s body is beyond me giving her my dick. I enjoy the secretions of her mental thoughts of me stimulating her mind as well as her pussy. You see if she is willing to allow me to stimulate her mind, her body is the easy part after the mind has been captured.

What do you do when your partner wants more sex than you do?

First of all you have to communicate your feelings. If talking about it isn't working, seek counciling from someone that works with couples and sex.


Try some of these things:
1. Pornography or nude photos of yourself. Make sure its legal, free, and well hidden.
2. Have a sense of humor. Laughing is better then great sex because you don't have to be naked. Actually, it helps lighten the mood, where lack of sex can be stressful for some people.
3. Sometimes you can replace sex with sexual contact. Showering together, cuddling nude, oral sex/masterbation, and even watching pornography together.
4. Give in and have sex. There should be a number of times you have sex in a week/month, that both of you are comfortable with. "We will TRY to have sex 2 times a week." AND this is not set in stone.
 
As for women that want more sex, the concepts are very much the same. 1.However, in this case most men have to accept that she may desire the use of toys. 2.Her pornography is likely to be more romantic and less graphic. 3. She may also prefer a few romantic gestures rather than nude photos. 4. Cuddling, showers, and watching her favorite chick flick might cover it.

This isn't going to apply to everyone, so communicate, communicate, communicate.

Intimate Emotions About Your Sex Partner

Hold’em up, way back, dig deep, so deep put her ass to sleep. At least you think, you aren’t shit and her ass is pissed the fuck off. I don’t care what a bitch say, its fucked up but she will replace your has just like a man. There are no sounds of penetration only frustration of your inability to FUCK and eat that pussy right, to satisfy her needs. A female will sometimes try and protect your masculinity, by saying what you need to hear as a man. What’s really fucked up a bold non caring bitch will just tell you how the fuck she feel, and say fuck you and fuck your feelings. Love may still be in mist of things, but really your ass is done, because your dick can’t scratch that itch no more. A man or a woman knows if they still got what it takes to make a mother fucka, make some kind of sound, or exchange some them ugly, but needed fuck faces. Ok, all ya’ll Asses know what the fuck I’m talking about. You may know, or may not know to much about this mother fucka, but when the dick or the pussy isn’t turning you on anymore, let’s just tell the truth, you want to trade that shit, just like that tow up ass car you got. But that shit isn’t right, and all you readers know what it is.

A wet pussy or a stiff dick begins to have emotions of uncertainty. The insecurity of both sexes is very similar and hard to ignore. It makes the owner of the dick or the pussy second-guesses their abilities, and what should they do to save, or protect what they have. Men can be worst than women, because of their need to feel validated with making love, fucking or whatever title you choose to give what you do with that special someone. These issues sometime may last a long time, and sometime it’s just for a moment. There is no age limit for the very unique reactions that come out of these events. So the next time you or your mate are experiencing these issues, take your emotions out of it, and learn how to process what’s the best options for a better resolution to a very big problem in society.

Why Are Some Women Controling? Ask Yourself

Below are some reasons that will explain to you why some women control men or their husbands:

• The Woman was raised by a controlling mom: If a woman was raised in a house where her mother was the dominant and controlling figure in the family then the girl will grow up assuming that a woman should control her man. This can and will result in a lot of emotional pain for them both.

• Insecure women might become control freaks:  When a woman feels insecure she might start to control others in order to feel in control once again. Psychology is not a 1+1=2 science and so not every insecure woman will be a control freak but in some cases an insecure woman might try to feel secure by controlling her environment and this includes controlling her husband. In time she can and will run him away.

• Masculine protest and controlling women: Masculine protest is a psychological term used to describe the case where a woman hates her feminine role as a result of feeling that its the inferior role. Some of these women turn into control freaks in order to assume the superior role which is the role of a man.  With this comes, anger, also her strong tongue, or even control him, by making him feel bad about not being able to please her sexually o financially.

• Controlling women choose weak men: The previous point brings us to another very important point. Women who want to dominate men and control their husbands usually chose an easy target that can be controlled without much effort. This means that the woman who wants to control a man will look for a man who can easily be controlled. They know how to watch, his behavior, and how he speaks, is just a few of the woman's tricks to maintain control of her mate, even if that mate is a woman.

Internal Struggles

Who is the other he, that continues to follows him, and has done so since his birth. He looks very familiar on the outside, they speak the same, but they have different understandings, of who they really are to each other. They have been changing their roles of who will remain in charge, with life, and who understands the realization of who’s stronger. When the roles change, those on the outside, may not know, if there are struggles going on the inside. The struggles that the both of them shares, there can only be one that remains, has the ultimate power. The heavy, and very negative spirit, he is afraid of it taking over, a breaking him to his lowest point. Emotions run deep, when the lamb, is in the pasture, seeking cover from the wolves of this old world. He continues to wait, with faith that his father will rescue him from the many years despair before this point in his life. His flesh is the container that holds what God want’s to develop, but the need to maintain.

The Poet expressing himself...

Why Women Cheat 4 Stages

Stage 1

Women at Stage 1 feel as though something is missing in their lives. They have all the things that they wanted—a home, a family, a great husband—but they feel they should be happier. Over time, many women in this stage begin to lose interest in sex. It is not uncommon for them to spend a great deal of energy trying to avoid physical contact with their husbands because they fear it might lead to a sexual encounter. They frequently complain of physical ailments to avoid having sex and often try to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. They view sex as a job, not unlike doing the dishes or going to the grocery store. Some women in Stage 1 claim they feel violated when their husbands touch them.  Their bodies freeze up and they feel tightness in their chest and/or a sick feeling in their stomach. The majority of women in Stage 1 feel as though there is something wrong with them, that they are in some way defective. They are also fearful that their disinterest in sex will cause their husbands to cheat, or worse yet, leave them.

Stage 2

Women at Stage 2 experience reawakened desire stimulated by an encounter outside the marital relationship. Whether these encounters with a "new" man involves sex or remain platonic, women will typically give a tremendous amount of emotional significance to these encounters.

Many women in this stage haven't felt any sexual desire for a long time. Many experience tremendous guilt and regret, regardless of whether their new relationships are sexual, merely emotional, or both. Most begin to experience what could be termed an identity crisis—even those who try to put the experience behind them. Constant reminders are everywhere. They feel guilt when the topic of infidelity arises, whether in the media, in conversations with family and friends, or at home with their husbands. Women in this stage can no longer express their prior disdain for infidelity without feeling like a hypocrite. They feel as though they have lost a part of themselves. Reflecting society’s belief that women are either “good” or “bad,” women will question their “good girl” status and feel that they might not be deserving of their husbands. Many will try to overcome feelings of guilt by becoming more attentive toward and appreciative of their husbands. However, over time many women will move from appreciation to justification. In order to justify their continued desire for other men, women will begin to attribute these desires to needs that are not being met in their marriage, or to their husband’s past behavior. Many women will become negative and sarcastic when speaking of their husbands and their marriages and it is not uncommon for an extramarital affair to follow.

Stage 3

Women at Stage 3 are involved in affairs, ending affairs, or contemplating divorce. Women who are having affairs experience feelings unlike anything they have experienced before. They feel “alive” again and many believe they have found their soul mates. These women are experiencing feelings associated with a chemically altered state, or what is typically referred to as being in love.

These women are also typically in tremendous pain, the pain of choosing between their husbands and their new love interests. They typically believe that what they are doing is wrong and unfair to their husbands, but yet are unable to end their affairs. Many often try several times. Prior to meeting with their lovers, they will vow that it will be the last time, but they are unable to stick with their decisions.

Unable to end their extramarital relationships, women at Stage 3 conclude that their lovers are soul mates because they are unaware that they have become addicted to the high caused by chemicals released during the initial stages of a relationship. Many live in a state of limbo for years. “Should I stay married or should I get a divorce?” this is the question continuously on the minds of women at Stage 3 - it is also common for women at this stage to attempt to initiate a separation. In most cases, husbands of women at Stage 3, will launch futile attempts to make their wives happy by being more attentive, spending more time at home and helping out around the house. Regardless of women’s past and present complaints, the last thing women at Stage 3 want, is to spend more time with their husbands.

The reason many women will give for their desire to separate is a “search for self.” They convince their husbands that they might be able to save their marriage if they can just have time to themselves. They tell their husbands that time apart is the only hope of improving their current situation. Women at this stage want to free themselves of the restrictions of marriage and spend more time with their lovers. Most think that eventually their confusion will disappear.  They think they will eventually know with certainty whether they want to stay married or get divorced and be with their lovers. Separation allows women at this stage, to enjoy the high they experience with their lovers without giving up the security of their marriages. Husbands of Stage 3 women are often unaware that their wives are having affairs. Their lack of suspicion is typically due to their wife’s disinterest in sex and in their belief that their wife is a “good girl.”

Women at Stage 3 may also be experiencing the ending of an extramarital affair, and the ending may not have been their decision. They may have been involved with single men who either lost interest because the relationship could not progress or who became attracted to another women who was single. Women whose affairs are ending often experience extreme grief. They may become deeply depressed and express tremendous anger toward their husbands. They are typically unaware that they are experiencing chemical withdrawal due to sudden changes in their brain chemistry. As a result, many will feel that they have missed their chance at happiness due to their indecisiveness.

Believing they have become more aware of what they want and need from a mate, women at this stage will often place the utmost importance on finding a "new" relationship that will give them the feeling they experienced in their affairs. A new relationship with a new partner will also represent a clean slate, a chance for these women to regain their “good girl” status. Some women will search for new partners during their separations. Others will return to their marriages, but not emotionally and still continue to search. Some women will resume sporadic sexual relations with their husbands in an effort to safeguard their marriage until they make a decision. Although they are often not sexually attracted to their husbands, desire is temporarily rekindled when they suspect their husbands are unfaithful, are contemplating infidelity, or when their husbands show signs of moving on. 

Stage 4

The women in stage four included those who chose to stay married and continue their affairs and those who chose to divorce. Some of the women who continued their affairs stated that marital sex was improved by maintaining the extramarital relationship. Some thought the lover was a soul mate, but for one reason or another did not leave their husband and did not feel torn between the two. Others realized that their feelings were intensified by not sharing day-to-day living arrangements with their lover. Almost all of the women in this latter category were having affairs with married men. They believed their affairs could continue indefinitely without disrupting either partner’s primary relationship.

The women who chose divorce and were in the beginning stages of a new relationship typically expressed relief at having finally made a decision and reported feeling normal again. Many of the divorced women who had remarried and were several years into their new marriages seemed somewhat reluctant to talk about the specifics of their past experiences. However, they did mention feelings of guilt and regret for having hurt their children and ex-spouses only to find they experiencing similar feelings in the new relationship. 

Why Men Cheat

Number 10

Your Lady Doesn't Put Out

Every man has heard that the best way to get a woman to stop having sex with him is by marrying her. Apparently, long-term relationships seem to suck the sex drive out of many women, leaving men gasping for fulfillment. With the need for more sex, some men will start "working late" more often.

Or it could just be that the sex has become boring. She doesn't want to try new things in bed, or won't perform fellatio. Some men may cheat because they don't want their girlfriends or wives to perform certain sex acts that would ruin their "good girl" image, so they get a mistress to take care of it. Like Robert de Niro said in Analyze This , "That's the mouth she kisses my kids good night with!"

In light of this, I call on lawmakers around the world to create an International BJ Day, where men and women get the day off from work and get all the oral satisfaction they need from their partners. I'll bet that this alone would cut infidelity by at least 75%.

Number 9

She Cheated On You

So you found out your lady was being unfaithful, and the only way you can relieve your anger is by doing the same. For many men, this is the only way to get back at their cheating girlfriends and even the score. Some men might even cheat to get back at all the cheating women they've had the misfortune of dating throughout their lives; now that's efficiency.

Number 8

It's Challenging And Exciting

If you consider the women you sleep with "sexual trophies," chances are you have already cheated at least once in your life. Some men simply cannot leave behind the thrill of the hunt, the chase and the conquest. For other men, the excitement is in the variety, like changing ice cream flavors for one day after years of sticking to just one.

Number 7

You Can Get Away With It

"What eyes don't see, the heart doesn't feel," goes the old adage, and it still holds true, as long as there are no cameras around. The knowledge that no one will find out and no one will get hurt is reason enough for some men to grab a different helping. But be careful; as men get craftier with avoiding detection, women get more sophisticated with detecting, not to mention boosting their network of spies.

Number 6

It Boosts Your Ego

Nothing lifts the old self-esteem like discovering that other women still desire you sexually. When in long-term relationships, men may begin to question their sexual marketability, which will lead some of them to sow their clandestine wild oats. Once a man knows he can get back in the game, he'll return to his mate; or not.

What's a guy to do when his girlfriend's-a-naggin' and opportunity comes-a-knockin'?

Number 5

The opportunity was there

It's an uncontested fact that most men can't say "no" to sex. Although guys aren't constantly bombarded with sexual offers, sometimes an irresistible prospect presents itself. Maybe it's a frisky ex-girlfriend, maybe it's a horny hottie on the dance floor. A guy may see it as once-in-a-lifetime occasion that might never be available again. Carpe diem , as they say.

Number 4

Your girlfriend is a nag

Most men have experienced at least one woman who thrives on making him feel like crap. Fighting and squabbling in the right ratios is the best recipe for a headache. Cheating with another woman is a common escape from this domestic hell, and works better than aspirin.

Number 3

Women let us

Truth be told, women are quick to forgive men for their unfaithful behavior. Maybe it's their fear of being alone, or that women are simply the more merciful ones of the human species. Some women might even blame themselves for their men's infidelities, and take steps to improve their relationships. The fact that many women let their men get away with murder might compel them to double deal repeatedly.

Number 2

She doesn't turn you on anymore

Long-term relationship have the annoying habit of making people lazy. No longer concerned with staying fit and attractive, a committed woman might lose the allure she once had. Her man may simply not find her beautiful anymore, and making love to her is not as stirring as it once was. This is why most mistresses are gorgeous, young women.

Number 1

You don't love her anymore

Alas, after a long time together, you have lost the feelings you once had for her. But the relationship has remained too much a part of you. Separating seems so painful, so radical that it's almost inconceivable. So instead of separating, you go elsewhere to get your physical gratification. Most times this does not help matters, but only prolongs the inevitable breakup.

Your Cheating Heart

In the end, cheating is no joking matter. If you are cheating on your girlfriend or wife, it might be that you are unhappy in the relationship, or that you have issues that you should address. Look at the big picture and see your unfaithfulness as a symptom of a bigger problem.

Cheating might feel good as a quick escape from your problems, but it's only an anesthetic -- not a long-term solution.

The Pink Skin & Colored Cat

The color is it rare, medium well, or dark. Does your body skin color dictate how hot you think your pussy is? Are you extremely beautiful, according to society definition of beauty on the outside? Have you been programed that being a “Red Bone” is better than being “Dark Chocolate”. Society has a way of subliminally fucking our minds up on how, physically beautiful along with skin color, holds more power over those who are less or have less in the area of external beauty. Beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. Beauty is best described by the one in question, but just as long as you believe who and what you are. Sandy brown hair, light brown eyes, is only superficial Validation truly is wanted from the opposite sex, but what a female receive should make her smile, accept the compliment, but yet remain humble. Understanding and knowing you are beautiful is good thing. But having arrogance is un-attractive in any form. The color, of your skin, the heat of your cat, or your sexual abilities in bed may be a factor to you and how you can make a man or a woman feel. Your ego, can be broken, if your stroken, is invoking no emotions, from one of your intimate sessions.

Wounding The Black Male

She had a name for me, but she could not lay claim to me, I called her my queen of desire, that would set any mans soul on fire. Her back door she was willing to open, but I told her because of the men before me I only wanted to come to the front, and not made to feel like the slaves before me. It was bad enough that, because of the pigmentation of their skin, they were able to get deep inside her and spill their seed, while I was in need, at home wondering, if she would come home impregnated. The cabin floor, knew the pattern of my feet as I walked back N forth wondering, is she crying, and have her tears started to dry on her face and show the pain she has to endure her nightly shame. Returning to me, with his scent in her hair, as I attempt to hold, her as I have done, so many times before I smell, as I inhale the essence of this animal that has taken my wife’s virtue when he wanted. Each day I awake, I go out into the fields and cry out to the creator to give me strength to hold on, as I weep from being tiered of my role that is not easy to maintain. My children belong to him, but she birthed them, so I must love them because they are a part of her.

Somewhere in the future I pray that what has happened to me will help change the thought process of what we may have to go through in life. The element of what you have to experience will last as long as it is supposed to. Re-evaluate what you currently have and what you do, just understand it is not about you.

Dreams & Confessions

My mental thoughts of my dreams and the dreams of my thoughts goes real deep within the vortex of who I am. I share parts of my soul, and my existence with persistence to who seek the wisdom from my spiritual, emotional, and my physical being. Dreaming has no boundaries; you have full control, inside the world of dreamland. My confessions, of what I am able to do, I have studied on how to bring together, my thoughts, my mind, and my understanding while in my “Dream State” of mind. Dream control, can manifest itself into real life. When I dream it allows me to restore what I lost while walking around in the matrix all day. The next time you go to sleep set your “Mental DVR” and set it to record the things you will need to restore yourself, for the next day of your daily battles.