The
preconceived thought that marriage should last forever is the desire of many
men and women. When a woman meets a man instantly she knows if she wants a relationship
that will one day lead to marriage. Then on the other hand you have some women
their only desire is to have fun and have little to no expectation, or
accountability to no one man. When a real woman finds a man whom she feels is
her life mate, she will begin to develop a true friendship, which turns into a
real love relationship, and eventually a life that women fantasize about
having. 30 years ago her name was “Un-Loved” when she met this man who for 10
years was her boyfriend and became her husband. When “Un-Loved” met
“He-Promised” she thought that this man would be a great husband and friend.
Early in their relationship she was young and so very beautiful he was handsome
but he had no idea how deep the love was that “Un-Loved” had for him. You see when a woman of her caliber connects
with a man like “He Promised” he should have known she was something special.
Since the beginning of time men have always have taken love like “Un-Loved” for
granted. “Un-Loved” was so beautiful she was breath taken, sweet, loving and
very affectionate but she was young, and had only started learning just how
beautiful she was and the power she had when it came to actually getting what
she needed. After 10 years of dating
“Un-Loved and “He-Promised” got married. During the 10 year court ship
“Un-Loved” had developed into a real woman with much more maturity. Un-Loved mind, and her body had blossomed and
“He-Promised” after 10 years of courtship, should have really step up to the
plate when it came to fulfilling the needs of his very beautiful girlfriend
turned wife. Early on in the
relationship he made many promises that only was in the beginning but over time
he did not have what it took to satisfy “Un-Loved”. “Un-Loved” at no time changed on her
expressing her love for “He-Promised”.
For all the years of their courtship and marriage “Un-Loved” never
changed. Over the years “Un-Loved”
became ill and suffered will arthritis.
After being diagnosed her focus was not only to understand and accept
her diagnosis but as a wife she never forgot her role as “He-Promised” wife. At
this point in her life “Un-Loved” as woman wanted comfort from her husband only
got her needs met just for little while. She wanted to know that he would be
there in her time of need. Early on in the beginning of her sickness he was
there but as time went on, he pulled back. When a woman or a man gets sick the
want to know that whom they are with will support them and love them despite
them being sick. After that devastating news about having rheumatoid arthritis,
and diabetes was another sickness that is share with by the doctors of this
Jersey Beauty. Overtime the diabetes
eventually took one of “Un-Loved” legs above the knee. After experiencing a
couple of medical issues “Un-Loved” had remembered that her husband had stop
expressing his love before she lost her leg.
“He-Promised” had definitely fallen out of love with “Un-Loved” but she
really did not pay it much attention, but it had happened. After time when on “Un-Loved” had lost her
second leg and that is when she noticed that her husband and friend of 30 years
had her feeling like and “Un-Loved” wife but she did not want to believe
it. Things had gotten so bad that she
had ask for he husband to leave only after 5 months to ask him to come back
home. After doing that “Un-Loved” should
have never asked her husband to come back home, but she was missing him. After “Un-Loved” ask her husband to come home
for the second time, it was the worst thing she had ever done. Hell “Un-Loved” could not take it and she
moved to another state. After she moved
she was really missing her husband and was hoping he would move to the state
she was in to show that he cared and he really wanted his wife and family. He-Promised” would text, sometimes, and even
drive several hours, only to act like he cared and wanted his wife. “Un-Loved” would get tired with this because
it was heavy on her heart.
“Un-Loved”
wants love from her husband “He-Promised”. “He-Promised” to love her, honor
her; cherish her, to sickness and in health.
“Un-Loved” continues to get stronger and is learning to empower herself
with the love of God.
Love
should never be given based on if you have all of your limbs, or become ill. A
woman needs Love, Love and much understanding.
