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Taste Yourself

What is it about the law of attraction from a woman to a man? Well by the time you get finish reading this story you will have a homework assignment, then you will truly know.  You see a woman that is in touch with her body and secretions knows exactly what men desire and that is to taste what runs from the walls of her vagina like a fountain of running water. Wait, wait before you start thinking this about something nasty, but its from the mind of many men. The sweet aromatic smell of her juices is what he smells as he approaches for the very first time. The only men who know what it really is are the ones who have studied the female anatomy or who have ever tried to truly understand its more than just putting his penis inside you trying to reach his false since of satisfaction of ejaculation up and out, hell no.  This process is more deeper than than that. You see ladies as you go through out your day, you are secreting pheromones all day. The secretions will increase if you have a visual or a mental thought of what you had it the past or some man that was really attractive as you went about your day. Some women know that their sex is good, and they know how to work their body right. There are some women who also knows that they only know how to have just your more traditional intercourse that is just basic, but can be pleasing to the man. The woman with this self awareness of what she is working with knows that every man she has sex with, that he will return. This woman not only knows how to move but she knows what he wants to taste her real bad. This woman is so talented with her technique, her actions are so hypnotic most of the men have had a woman like her before. Your sitting here reading, and thinking hell I know how to make love, or sex my man up real good.  But you really want to ask yourself, do you, do you really know how to satisfy your man or the men in your life. Its late, you met this man an your wet with anticipation and curiosity of how will he make you feel after he took your clothes off, he could not get your panties off. You  were so hot he pulled your panties to the side, so that he could lick and taste your liquid gold juices.  Before he took your panties off you climaxed twice, and each time he would put his tongue inside your vagina and fold it in half so that when you got ready to CUM the 3rd time he's letting you know he want's to get every drop in his mouth.  Yes by this time you are gasping for air and he has not even put his penis deep inside to scratch what you have been wanting. 

Ok, that's enough....now do you remember earlier in this story i told you that you were going to have some homework. Well now that you are wet as hell, take your hand and insert just 1 of your fingers and insert it far as you can into your hot hole and taste what he ate. You see after tasting yourself you will understand a little bit better of what he taste and why some men really truly love to inhale, your pheromones and taste them.

Now get up and shower and wash that body, and go to sleep with a smile on your face.  

Loud Silence

What does silence sounds like to a man or a woman who wants to someone to listen to their cries of their needs and wants of love and validation. The loud cries that has no sound can truly be herd by those who supposed to hear the need of their significant other. So many men and women can hear but refuse to hear what may have been caused by them in the first place. Than lack of care, concern, will have an outcome than can destroy trust, intimacy inside and outside the home.  What loud, silent cries have you been entrusted to pay attention to but have ignored.

Mid-Life Romance Restoration

 Mid-Life romance can remain the same if couples would both commit to keeping the relationship alive. Of course do to the body chemistry forever changing, it may have changed over the years but keeping up with health will be key for this to manifest in a good way. Both the husband and the wife will have to understand and re-evaluate and figure out what has changed, and use that it to base what changes will be made.  Prior to taking on the task of re-evaluation of the couple’s relationship, seeking a therapist that specializes in marriages would be the most recommend.  Yes, I know a lot of men don’t believe in therapist, or therapy and anything they stand for or sitting in front of someone sharing their most intimate activity to a complete stranger. It wont be easy, but once the couples can agree on going that is only half the battle. You see by them both going and being very honest about what their individualized thoughts are about romance it can only help them move forward into the future. Most men and women do struggle with getting older. If you can take a moment to remember what you observed about your mother and father went through could be used as a guideline if what you remembered was somewhat positive.

Couples can close the emotional gap by recognizing that it is, and can be a problem if they want to continue to have a healthy romantic marriage, with great and satisfying sex.

Now go and have one of several meeting with a therapist and come back to this post a share a little of what you may have learned about you, or about your spouse as a couple, and let the world hear your success story.

Teach Me How To Love You

Couples meet each other on a daily basis and don't know how to love themselves but they want to start a relationship and try a love someone else. Men think that if they sex a woman up real good and buy her some gifts to validate his false surface feeling causes nothing but pain to the woman over time. A woman will try to feed a man, sex him up and wait on him hand and feet. A woman will deny herself and her children for the sake of trapping and keeping a man. Some women will go as far as asking the man NOT to work a regular job so that she can keep a watch on him.  When couples meet there are a series of questions that should be asked but it never happens becasue both the man and the woman have motives that they never disclose to the other person. You may have questions like,  Have you ever been to jail, have you ever had any STD's, do you have any children, do suffer with deppression, have you ever been raped, etc. 

If you meet someone and they say "Teach Me How To Love You", could you give them the blueprint on how to love you. Do you think they should know when you first meet. Well how can you expect love, if you don't love yourself. Love is defined diffferently by each person who desires to have it.  

The final outcome of being taught how to love can be a life changing event for both parties involved,  pay close attention.

The Next Time You Meet

Meeting a woman for the very first time should be a very memorable and unique experience that both the woman and the man should never forget. Just thinking about how you met one another, remembering the conversation you had together as well as the meal. The reasons, your expectations ans knowing if you are meant to be friends or lovers. When you get a visual on "The Who"and "The Why" then your intentions are in your mind even if your actions are deceiful in nature. Generally men preditorial in nature, and women follow in a close 2nd.  So the next time you are approached, or you are doing the approaching let your actions be true and clear.

Soul of A Woman

The Poet says…..The souls of women have been consumed and lost in time due to the lack of commitment. False commitments of love, romance, and a life that is promised but broken before the journey begins, causes pain.  A woman’s soul hangs in the balance before she meets the man she has been destined to be with and her soul yearns for what some men proclaim to know but have no idea. The pain that is caused by some men runs so deep that only time can heal. Souls are not meant to be broken, but they are meant to be joined with others for unity and understanding.

"Forgiveness, Redemption, Restoration"

The Poet says….Forgiveness from a wife or girlfriend is sometimes verbalized for the moment until she realizes that the pain was far greater than she could have ever imagined from what was done to her. There is no set time on how long the forgiveness process takes. During the recovery time of the woman's pain she makes every attempt to allow her heart and mind regain the trust of her mate. The husband or the boyfriend will have a long journey before he is allowed to truly share the space of his wife or girlfriend again, because of her broken heart.  There are very mixed emotions from the woman, and sometimes during the recovery process she feels scorned, lonely, she will desire the emotional connection she once had with her mate. Because she has a wall of protection of being hurt again from her mate, her pheromones secret “Openness” of acceptance from other men. Her walk is different, her conversation is different, and her intimacy is different. She is having sex with her mate, but desires to make love eventually with which she seeks attention.  In the blink of an eye, she has done something that is totally against what she believes.  In the mist of her recovery, and allowing the other men to fill her time and space up she has less of an emotional connection from her husband or boyfriend.  You see once a woman gets emotionally attached with another man it is almost impossible to allow the forgiveness and the redemption to continue for her husband or boyfriend. The things she did with her husband, she is now doing with the other men, and sometimes it’s more than one man, to help fill the void of loneliness.

The constant denial of what she is doing only fuels the behavior, that is wrong, but not wrong to her because now her needs are being fulfilled all over again.  In the mist of emotional rollercoaster she still has insecurities, and expectations from her spouse or significant other. She will continue to search for signs that he continues to be unfaithful. The husband or the boyfriend truly has forgiveness in his hurt, and wants his place back in her heart, but sometimes in life the second chance may have been just too much to handle, so it never happens.

In the end the wounded relationships will either survive, they will die if they both are not trying to truly reconcile.

“What do you think, let me hear from some of our readers”.

Your Deceit

The Poet says….The spirit of sexual deceit are hidden behind the spirit of innocence, but the eyes reveals a small peak into the windows of the spirit that wants to come to the surface to whom you will meet in life. If your flesh longs for some mental and physical attention you will be deceived on the spirit that wants to devour the spirit in you. Do not be mad on about the type of person you let in your life. Your flesh feels good for the release you got.

Voices, Choices, Do You Understand

LADIES.........In life you have choices, and you have voices, you choose to do what you think is right and wrong with your relationships. You also have voices that love to tell you what you should do, or should not do from someone who has been alone since the disciples was on earth. You see ladies if you want to find the truth about a man, ask a man that you trust that and you are not intimate with, or have no desire to be intimate with. Stop going on your assumption on what you think a man will do or how he thinks. You see ladies you want to really know how to get deep with this. First, your keeping him is not about how hot and wet your "Cat"" Sweet Bread" or whatever you call your "Vee Jay Jay" can really get.  A close friend of the Poet's years ago said that when a man cheats, or steps outside the home for sexual needs, it is not about the "Vee Jay Jay", The "Vee Jay Jay" is just one of the rewards he gets while seeking someone to talk to. You see ladies, first stop barking at your husband, man, boyfriend, boo, or friend, or whatever his title is.  Remember while you talking at him crazy ass hell, she is not, she is "Listening" to him consoling him, comforting him, and doing just the opposite of what you are not doing for him or to him. You know ladies you got to understand, despite him being saved, religious, Holy, Mormon, JW, Muslim, etc, the man process is the same. Sometimes his not being faithful has nothing to do with you, but his low self-esteem but him wanting to feel accepted, and sexual acceptance is self fulfilling.  Learn to hear what he has to say, also try and hear the things he is not saying, pay close attention.

Now if you have a man that is very Loving, Comforting, Kind Husband, Man, Boo etc, Keep pushing and keep trying, to understand what his needs are, and learn what you can accept or won't accept.

Men......You can be putting it down in the bedroom, don't mean your woman won't step out on you. You can pay all of the bills in your house, she can have a nice car, and don't have to work, and you can be very affectionate don't mean crap. A long tool than can run deep, with financial pockets won't keep your woman off her back with other men, if it's in her it is in her, just like a man. I am not making excuses for the behavior of both men and women, but in reality, this is happening daily. First off, most men think, if they are showing affection, and intimacy without sex, is a sign of weakness. A lot of men are not making Love to their woman, they are "Screwing" them, they are not making Love. Ladies you know if he is making love to you are not. Stop fooling yourself, if he is not holding you, caressing you, and doing the things, you know he knows how to please you, that means you have been getting "Screwed". There is a difference in what you get. All women desire to have a nice house or home with a white picked fence, there is a difference. Men stop thinking like the ladies your "Dick" is not the trick or the "Magic Wand" or the solution for a successful relationship.

Ladies and Gentlemen, if you was never have been taught your role as a man or woman, Ladies get with a mature woman who will really show you and tell you what the game is really about. Men you try and connect with a man who thinks with something other than his "Dick". You see there are some of what I call "The Old Heads" who really understand what it is. Let someone teach you, treat you, reach you, and get you to the place you want to be.

Ladies, and gents, evaluate where you are, evaluate where you are going, but most of all evaluate what you want and what you desire to be in your relationship, and strive to continue to understand who you are with.

In closing even if it is not "Sexual" there will always be another man or another woman to provide a listening ear to your mate. This listening ear does not mean that sex is going down, but in the end it can happen, but that is another story from your boy "THE POET" telling some real truth.

Open Relationships

Real talk if more men and women could be open about having an open relationship it would be more people staying together. You see with an open relationship, there would be no reason to step out on your mate.  Let me just tell the truth that more men are stepping out on there mate, then women. To be open would be is to have a mutual agreement between the two people, but men can not take what they dish out. They want a woman to do as they say, not as they do. I say what's good for you has to be good for them.

The problem with most marriages, or relationships is that most couples don't want to talk about the real intimate things, because it makes them feel uncomfortable. Most men don't want to talk about what it is that their wives, or girlfriends wants, or need from them. In the long run over time I have seen some of the most sweetest woman loose her fight to hold on to her man, and she will allow the next man, come in and have the listening ear she needed from her husband. This also applies to the woman as well.

Talk with who you are with, and listen to what they have to say and show concern, because if you don't, they next woman, or man will be in your place.

Female Fear

Couples will sometime spend their entire life married but want to be free. The sad part about it is that they refuse to tell each other but will tell others outside the marriage. Most often the men want out, and the women know but fear being alone. Women that fear being alone are alone already, but they just continue to have roommates that they share some sexual encounters and pay bills together.  The man gets another sex partner outside the marriage, but he still wants to control his wife. Men want to continue to control her because he can't take her acting like him. Most men don't want to imagine another man making his wife sweat, and moan like he use to. Now if she never allows herself to play outside the marriage, all she gets is sex, with no emotion, and a wet ass.

Ladies, how long will you allow your significant other to make you feel less. Remove the emotional blanket and excuses and the fear of the unknown.

Expectations

The Poet says……Men need to learn to secrete more emotions, and knowledge if they really want to connect with their significant other.  If women can’t see past the size of a man’s tool, or how deep he can get while scratching that occasional itch, she will always end up with the same thing, a Wet Ass, A Happy Pussy, but never the real nurturing men she needs and deserves to be with. You see without her having and expectations from any man, everyone who she meets will treat her just like a trick……Come on ladies make your man accountable for you, not just your pussy.

"Husbands and Wives How Do You View Each Other"

The Poet says…..The matters of the heart, should start at home.  Emotional distance from the home will harden the heart, and the love may never return, once it is gone. The Husband and the wife should be able to speak to one another, about what is lacking. Watch out for the “Other Shadow” lurking in the mist. You see the other shadow will, basically replace your ass, in every aspect. Men, or Ladies a listening, and understanding ear, from the outside can and will eventually cause your significant other to enjoy the Time, Space, and Matter….of another man or woman. Men don’t think because your ass, is paying bills, being affectionate, domesticated, and you can even lick the hell out of that cat, and your dick can scratch all her itches, don’t mean shit. Ladies, if you won’t suck that dick, and anything else, you can think of you really need to step up your game, and stop giving your man some pity Pussy, you know what that is, it is that Pussy you offer or give him just to shut his ass up, that other woman, will hold your man, and make him feel, loved, and fuck the shit out of him, and send his ass home with a smile on his face each time, and fuck him hard. She will first get in his head and get his attention, and then she takes his body.

Broken Promises

The Poet says…Coming home to a husband or wife with no love is, like coming home to emptiness. Each day you pull up to get out of the car, and all you want to do is to drive by, and never stop. He said, he loved her but they sleep in separate beds. She said I need more from you, he said I don’t want to talk about, it. She said ok, I am tired of begging for you to touch, and talk to me. He did not care, but another man who will listen to her needs and say yes.

Your Mouth

The Poet says…Some people mouths need birth control. If they “THINK” before they speak they will not birth negativity into their own element, and reap from what they said. Some people do it so much they have no idea how wrong it really is. Wake up family and keep other people business out your mouth. This also means anyone outside your house like Mother-In-Law, Father-In-Law, cousins, etc….it causes problems for folks, and you. “Oh! Now I remember why my family is not talking me, it was my mouth again?

Boundaries

The Poet says….Boundaries is in place for a reason, “The Cause” and “The Effect” of them being broken are only determined by the one who wanted to cross them. Once the boundaries have been crossed the rejection, is a reflection of how one truly feels. Forgiveness won’t fix it, but how we process what was done will allow you to understand what direction to take. To settle is to forgive, and forgiveness is to settle. Your settlement may just be an interim emotion until you are ready to leave a place that was once comfortable to your heart and mind....

"Know Your Needs"

The Poet says....If you feel like your, Mind, Heart, and Soul is under siege, drop to your knees, and seek help from the only one who can give it to you, stop running from what need to deal with, you have been feeling a certain kinda way for a long time.....Real Talk.

Broken Emotions

The Poet says....Being Broke reaches beyond your finance. Being Emotionally Broken and never getting help only prolongs your recovery. Condescending words against others to only subliminally fool yourself that you are better than those who you come in contact with daily. Only a foolish man stays in the dark. Spiritual guidance is great, but most often Medial evaluation is what's really needed.

Death Desires.....

The Poet says….The health of a man he may internalize his thoughts to keep his emotions in check. Death may be the end result of his illness, but his peace at the end of his journey is all he could hold on to and maintain whatever dignity to die alone in his mind. Acceptance of reality is only understood by the person with the issue. It is not meant for none to understand how a man wants to die, but his own.